End-to-end surrogacy & donor concierge for Intended Parents.
Personal, hands-on advocacy at every stage—matching, team-building, and coordination. I serve as your primary point of contact, in partnership with agencies, clinics, and attorneys, from intake to birth.
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About Marly
Marly Steinman, Licensed MFT.
Marly Steinman spent over four challenging years navigating infertility with her husband before finally welcoming their twins, Jack and Celine, through surrogacy. The joy and gratitude of becoming parents inspired her deeply—she knew immediately that she wanted to dedicate her professional life to helping others on the same path.
With a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and over 15 years of experience as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in fertility and reproductive mental health, Marly brings unparalleled empathy, personal insight, and professional expertise to her role as a third-party reproduction consultant.
Her unique perspective—having walked this road herself—guides every conversation, decision, and recommendation she makes. Marly’s mission is clear: to transform a complicated, overwhelming journey into one of clarity, connection, and hope.
Services
Boutique‑level consulting and support for individuals and couples navigating third‑party reproduction—surrogacy, egg donation, and sperm donation. Combining strategic guidance, personal advocacy, and day‑to‑day coordination—so you can make clear decisions with confidence.
Match Strategy & Search
Design your search and surface best-fit candidates so you can move into a confident yes.
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Define values, boundaries, anonymity, budget, and timeline.
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Vetted agencies/private networks aligned to your criteria; highlight best-fit options.
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Questions to ask, facilitation if needed, and a structured debrief & scorecard.
Concierge Case Management
Daily coordination and advocacy—from calendars to milestones—so you always know what’s next.
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I coordinate with agency, clinic, and attorneys so information flows to you in one place.
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Milestones, documents, and escrow reminders tracked and maintained.
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Regular check‑ins, issue‑spotting, and clear next steps to protect your timeline.
Donor Path (Standalone or Add-On)
Strategy and search for egg/sperm donors with fit, privacy, and logistics handled.
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Search clinics, banks, and agencies with privacy and fit at the center.
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Health/background criteria, clinic alignment, and practical considerations.
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Logistics, records, and legal coordination for smooth next steps.
How we work
Two ways to work together—start with a consult, then choose Match-only or End-to-end coordination, in partnership with your agency, clinic, and attorneys.
Path A
Match Strategy & Search
For IPs who want expert matching without ongoing management—clear plan, shortlists, and match-call support with a formal handoff.
Coordination can be added later.
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Align-on and delineated goals, criteria, boundaries, timeline and budget.
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Curated candidates via vetted partners.
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Call prep, moderation as needed and structured debriefing.
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Calendar & records alignment; handoff package to your agency/clinic.
Path B
Ongoing Coordination
For IPs who want day-to-day management—centralized coordination, steady communication through pregnancy, and a smooth delivery plan.
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Coordination with your agency, clinic, and attorneys.
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Scheduling, documentation, and expectations aligned.
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Proactive updates, milestone guidance, issue-spotting.
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Hospital logistics, parentage docs, roles & contacts; fourth-trimester bridge.
Podcasts
Selected conversations on surrogacy, matching, and the modern donor path.
The World’s First Podcast with Erin and Sara Foster
Ep. 99
Filling in the Fertility Gaps (with Marly Steinman M.F.T.)
BDA Baby with Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt
Ep. 09/03/25
Surrogacy Matchmaking with Marly Steinman.
The Seam Podcast
Ep. 04/01/25
Building Families Through Surrogacy with Marly Steinman.
FertiliTEA with Dr. D
Ep. 09/10/24
Mental Health & IVF: with Marly Steinman.
Surrogacy Is a Podcast
Ep. 09/17/24
Supporting Intended Parents: Advice from Marly Steinman.
The Babymakers with Danica Thornberry
Mental Health & IVF: with Marly Steinman.
Ep. 05/01/24
EntertainHer Podcast
Ep. 03/09/23
Fertility, Anxiety & Relationships with LMFT Marly Steinman.
Infertile AF with Ali Prato
Ep. 12/29/21
Infertility and Modern Family Building with Marly Steinman.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Typically, intended parents can expect to match with a donor within 2-6 weeks and a surrogate within 4-12 weeks, thanks to Marly’s thorough process, curated network and deep understanding of what makes a great match.
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Marly supports clients working both independently and through reputable agencies. She carefully discusses all options and assists clients in making informed decisions based on their needs and comfort levels.
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A match can fall through for reasons such as unexpected medical findings, a change in personal circumstances, or a shift in comfort level for either party. If a match does falls through, Marly quickly coordinates with your agency or clinic to understand next steps and protect your timeline. She then prioritizes re‑matching and continues full support—until a new fit is secured.
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Yes, Marly charges a flat concierge fee clearly outlined from the beginning. Her fee is based on a monthly retainer that can cover services from matching only to the entire journey, ensuring transparency, predictability, and trust—without hidden costs or markups.
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Absolutely. Marly regularly supports international clients, guiding them through unique legal, logistical, and emotional challenges, from initial consultation through birth and newborn travel documentation.
Send us a message to schedule a consultation today!